Financial planning for newly single parents

After a divorce or the sudden death of a spouse, single parents have the twin challenges of adjusting to a new life and getting their child adjusted to it as well.

The third challenge, getting money issues in order, can be a threat to both.

For a newly divorced or newly widowed parent, the right tax, estate and financial planning advice are crucial. Here are some general steps the newly single should take:

Revise or make an estate plan. A will is essential, but it's also important to make immediate plans for who will raise the children if something happens to the parent. In case of divorce, plans might have been set for the ex-spouse to take full-time custody in case of the other's death, but if a parent has never been married, it's particularly important to select the right custodian for the child and perhaps a separate person who can become custodian of the child's finances to invest properly for their support and their future.

Make sure all beneficiaries are correct. Don't forget all your insurance policies, your work and individual retirement accounts and any investments you might have recently acquired.

Make sure ex-spouses are removed from any joint accounts you've been awarded. Notify each of the three credit bureaus of your divorce so future reports will be based only on your credit reports.

Adjust your investment focus if necessary. For retirement as well as investing you will do for your child's future, get advice on what they'll need for college and what you'll need for retirement as a single person.

Revisit your career plan. You are probably going to have to either return to the work force or possibly change jobs to increase your earnings or improve your benefits. If additional career training is necessary to improve your prospects, you may consider going back to school and you'll need to strategize how to pay for it. You might also choose to work for an employer with great educational benefits.

Make sure you get the pension assets you're entitled to. A Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) is a settlement statement where a spouse receives pension assets from another in case of a divorce. You need to present a QDRO approved by the court at the time a divorce is finalized to your ex-spouse's plan administrator to make sure agreed-upon assets get transferred to the account you've designated. Get advice on how to best invest those assets.

Make sure health insurance is in place. If you're divorced, you'll likely have to locate your own insurance option. But if your ex-spouse's plan is a good one, try to make sure that he or she can keep your child covered until a better option comes along. Again, the need for health insurance may also drive your career decision, so consider it.

Make sure your life insurance is in place. As a single divorced parent, you'll need to adjust the amount of your life insurance relative to any insurance coverage your ex-spouse has with your children as the beneficiaries. You'll also need to make sure on a regular basis that your ex-spouse has not canceled that coverage.

Check in with Social Security. See if your ex-spouse's work record may entitle you to receive certain benefits.

An emergency fund becomes even more important. It's particularly necessary because you won't have another partner's income to fall back on anymore.

Rebecca Warren is a certified financial planner professional and certified senior adviser in Mesa. She can be reached at (480) 357-8380 or by e-mail at Rebecca@WarrenFinancialServices.com.